Last week, in our effort to seek more information, I called Mayo in Rochester to see if they would be willing to give Kevin a second opinion. Let's be clear, not an opinion on the diagnosis, but where we are headed with treatments. How exciting on Friday to receive the call from Mayo and get an appointment scheduled for Wednesday (today).
Of course, then the "fun" begins...answering Mayo's questions to get Kevin registered, having Gundersen assemble all of his records so we could take them to the appointment, and calling the insurance company to check on coverage. Invariably, one phone call led to four more. In the end, not a big deal. But those of you who know me, know that phone calls are stressful for me. I can email a request with no issue. But making that phone call, for some reason, is another story.
Kevin and I approached today's appointment in two very different ways. I look forward to the appointment and become excited and energized by the anticipation. Kevin, on the other hand, becomes worried about what to expect and what they might say (understandably so), which leads him to become quiet and short with others. Try to picture the two of us in the car this morning: Kevin driving with his serious, brow furrowed look. Don't talk to me. Then there's me almost bouncing around in the seat yapping about last night's elections trying to bring him out of his mood. What a pair.
Thanks to helpful advice from friends who have been to Mayo, and the fact that we left in the middle of the night (okay, okay it was a little before 5 a.m., not the middle of the night), we had no issues finding the Gonda Building at Mayo, parking in the ramp, and locating our check-in spot. At 6:30 a.m., I think we were the first people on the 8th floor. I wandered around, read brochures, and tried to look out the windows and compare with the map to figure out what buildings were around the hospital. In contrast, Kevin sat quietly wishing he had a comfortable enough spot for a quick nap.
Mayo felt different to both of us. Ironically, we described that "different" very differently. Kevin said he thought it felt very relaxed. I thought the vastness of the buildings, along with the marble floors and art work all combined to make it feel like we were going some place important. People from all over the world travel for treatment at Mayo. Yet, we are lucky enough to have such a prestigious place almost in our backyard. How can one not be grateful?
It doesn't take long for that quiet, empty place to come to life. Others joined us in the waiting area. The employees at the check-in desk were in their spots and ready to go at 7:00 a.m. on the dot. Kevin was first in line. After handing over his medical records, they printed his appointment schedule and instructions. Lab work in the Charlton Building of Methodist Campus at 7:10. Yep, a whole different building for the lab work. After getting directions, Kevin and I gave each other a look like, "Okay, let's give it a whirl."
Down the hall, across the skywalk, down the elevator, oops, try again, down one more floor (there's a 1st floor and an L floor?), through the maze of halls to labs. No problem, Kevin was checked in and seated by 7:09. We were amazed by the number of people. At 7:00 in the morning there were over 35 people in the waiting area and more constantly in line. Then came the next challenge, finding our way back to the Gonda building where we had started. Clearly we were up for the challenge today because we made it back without a hitch.
Once Kevin had checked in again, they realized he hadn't completed all of the patient paperwork. You know, that mound of paper that killed three trees. The one where they ask you if your grandmother's second cousin had diabetes or heart issues. We joked later that we hoped they don't try to jab him with a Measles, Mumps, Rubella shot since I don't have any clue what his vaccination history is. Sorry, dear. Guess I should have lied and circled "Yes" instead of "Don't know." My bad.
We had no clue what doctor we were seeing until they took us into the actual office and saw his various certificates hanging on the wall. Dr. Joon Uhm (June like the month, and umm like you might say 20 times when you are giving a speech). If you are curious about what he looks and sounds like, here is a video he made back in 2009. Although that was over 6 years ago, he still looks the same.
Dr. Uhm had reviewed Kevin's files and did a fantastic job of explaining and answering questions. He complimented the surgeon, saying he didn't think the surgery would have been done any better at Mayo. He complimented the treatment given by Dr. Conway and Dr. Kwong so far. As we have known, the initial treatment of surgery, followed by radiation and chemo, is standard procedure across the country. Dr. Uhm also emphasized what we had come to realize. It is not humanly possible for a general oncologist to know everything about every kind of cancer. As an example, Dr. Uhm said that even though he is an oncologist, he would not know the best treatment methods for a breast cancer patient. That is not his area of specialty.
One of the key terms Dr. Uhm described was Pseudo Progression. Often times, the first MRI after treatment actually looks worse due to debris left behind by the chemo and radiation. This change in the scan is called pseudo progression. Dr. Uhm felt it is too early to tell if the scan truly showed new growth or if the changes reflected the pseudo progression. How will we know? Have another scan.
It is typical to have another scan a month later. Although it feels like we just went through this, this is actually the third week since Kevin's last scan. These doctors can move pretty quickly. Dr. Uhm said he was going to notify Dr. Kwong in LaCrosse that he recommended a follow-up scan next week. Before we got home, Gundersen was calling Kevin scheduling an MRI for next Friday, April 15 at 7:00 a.m.
Is there a chance the next scan could still have pseudo progression? Yes. Is there a chance the next scan would verify that there truly was new growth? Yes. However, right now, I could tell that Kevin felt a sense of relief. Dr. Uhm gave us the impression that he wasn't too concerned with the March 18 scan. He needs more information.
Clinical trials. Many of the clinical trials require a 12 week waiting period after radiation. Something in our records must have indicated we were questioning the 12 week waiting period so Dr. Uhm made it a point to clarify that concept right away. For a clinical trial to be accurate, the patients' results cannot be affected by previous treatments they had. Therefore, the 12 weeks should clear the body of those treatments and allow for more accurate testing. Personally, I already understood that concept but couldn't see how we could wait 12 weeks doing nothing when the tumors were already growing back. Ironically, it has already been 7 weeks today since Kevin finished his treatments.
Dr. Uhm also explained Mayo's clinical trials. One of their trials is very similar to Duke's only Mayo is using the measles virus (rather than polio). Based on the location of Kevin's tumor, he would not qualify for this trial. The other trial involves surgery to remove the tumor, grinding up the tumor to create its own personalized vaccine and then injecting the vaccine back into the brain. Sounds crazy doesn't it? This trial requires a really big tumor. If Kevin were ever to qualify, he would be in very bad shape because the size of the tumor would be causing major problems.
As for the drug Avastin, I am glad we waited. Dr. Uhm had confirmed what I thought I had interpreted from research. The drug doesn't really extend life but it can improve the quality of life. He described it as a major weapon to use as late as possible.
Beyond the scan, Dr. Uhm is also going to do some checking on Kevin's tumor to see if it is MGMT Methylated. MGMT is a gene within the tumor and it can help to guide therapy based on how the gene has responded to treatment. Let's get real...I don't really know what I'm saying here and I've got to do some more reading to try and make some sense of it.
It is so hard to believe that four months ago today, December 6, this journey began. And today we were presented more opportunities to be thankful.
- Thankful for so many quality health care facilities so close by. Many travel for hours to get to LaCrosse and days to get to Mayo.
- Thankful for the technology that allows us to research, and learn and ask questions.
- Thankful for those who specialize in treatment areas like brain cancer.
- Thankful for the opportunity to spend the day together. Although we were warned the appointment could possibly take all day or even go into the next day, it didn't. So we had a little time for fun.
- Thankful for the time to visit with friends in Rochester and Lewiston.
- Thankful for the prayers. Today, we felt God gave us a sense of relief and understanding.
- Thankful for the texts and phone calls and cards.
- But most of all, thankful for one more day.
Do not be anxious about anything,
but in everything, by prayer and petition,
with thanksgiving, present your requests to God.
And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding,
will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.
Philippians 4: 6-7.
You're amazing....period.
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